WE ARE LABELLED

February 6, 2016.  Margo City Depok. West Java

Long holiday will come! Even its Saturday night, it does not mean my species are forbidden to hang out. I mean species of Jomblo *you know lah*.  Hey come on saturday night not only for couple, you still can hang out with your besties better than sleep for a thousand year in your room haha.

This night I choose to hang out with my favorite b*tch, Dian. I havent met her for 1 month because we still in our campus holiday. Then now, we wanna eat together and get some conversations. If you think we want gossipin’ people you will wrong, we just wanna share about our lately life, talk about movies, books or songs, and maybe ehm..talk about people. No I mean I just share everything with her and she does  the same, include the people on it. LOL

While waiting our food order...

Me : Btw how’s life day? Everything’s going as well?

Dian : So far okay, but in last two weeks ago i felt dizzy with all voices arround me.

Me : What was happen. Was Adam Levine keep his romance with Behati Prinsloo?

Dian : Hey stop it, he will always be my boy!

Me : Well okay, slow babe slow haha. So what?

Dian : There were much complain on my job. I mean not only on job but also in our society. Much  

voice come and sometimes it made me down. They judge me easily just base on what they see.

Me : What kind of voices?

Dian : Much voice, I dont wanna talk about it anymore. I just forgot it.

Me : Dont make me curious, gimme example

Dian : Well okay, its commonly cases for example. They say...If you're fat, you look nasty. If you're skinny, you're on drugs. If you're dressed up, you're conceited. If you dress for comfort, you're a slob. If you speak your mind, you're a Bitch. If you don't say anything, you're rude. If you have male friends, you're a whore. If you have female friends, you're a player. If you are sweet to strangers, you are fake. If you cry, you're a drama queen.

Me  : *Silence*

Dian : Well, you can't do anything without being LABELLED. We live in a society where people can't survive if they're not judging the next person. In reality, people judge you from your actions without knowing the reason behind it. They don't even care about you at all, no matter how hard you try or how good you are.

Me : You talk that blah blah, that la la, that rah rah shit! And I'm so done, I'm so over it. Sometimes I mess up, I f*$% up, I hit and miss but I'm okay, I'm cool with it *Singing Materpiece by Jessie J*

Dian : Yess! Thats true. In the first time I felt down and got dizzy with all that fucking noise. But then i thought that their comment didnt help nothing and now I try to ignore it all.

Me : Pretty, pretty please Don't you ever, ever feel. Like you're less than Less than perfect. Pretty, pretty please if you ever, ever feel like you're nothing less than perfect. *Singing Perfect by Pink*

Dian : Dont be like Saipul Jamil si, stop singing!

Me : Haha. Yess I agree about your sentence that WE ARE LABELLED by people and our society. And we often face that moments. But I think sometimes their label not actually describe about us, that is just their opinion.

Dian : Yeah thats right .

Me : Dont let their label change and bounding us. Just be your self and do what should we do as long as its not  deviate the rule.

Dian : Im perfectly incomplete, im still working on my masterpiece *Singing Masterpiece by Jessie J* Everybody put your hands up!

Me : Stop it day, dont make me looked silly.

Both of us : HAHAHA.

And finally our food come. Happy eating!